Certified Relationship
Life Coach for Divorced Christian Women over 40
Recognize God's guidance vs. Your own fear
"For I know the plans I have for you, plans to prosper and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future" Jeremiah 29:11
MY CALLING
I work with divorced Christian women over 40.
Women who look like they have everything figured out,
but something still feels missing.
They have a job they love. A car they're proud of. Friends and family who show up for them. A church that feels like home. A real relationship with God.
And yet... they go home feeling unfullfilled.
The one thing they keep praying for, a real, loving partner, hasn't come.
And they can't figure out why they keep meeting men who seem so interested at first, but then they dissapear.
After my own divorce, I found out the answer to my prayers.
It's not that your are doing something wrong.
I discovered that of old wounds, from past relationships, from childhood, that quietly get in the way.
Wounds most women don't even know they're carrying.
When I finally healed those hidden hurts, everything changed.
I stopped looking for love because I felt incomplete.
And I started attracting the right kind of love, from a whole, healed place.
That's exactly what I help you do.
If you're ready to stop wondering "why not me?" and finally add love to the beautiful life you've already built.
I'd love to walk that journey with you.
Every week women are discovering patterns that are keeping them from the love they deserve, and learning how to break free from generational cycles that have held them back for years.
These aren't surface-level dating tips; these are the deep spiritual and emotional breakthroughs that transform how you show up in relationships, helping you attract a God-aligned partner who matches the incredible life you've already built.
Don't let another day go by wondering why love hasn't found you yet, because the answers you need are waiting in the next episode.
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Testimonials
Before working with Patty, I was stuck in an endless cycle of attracting emotionally unavailable men.
After six months of her guidance, I've not only began to heal my relationship patterns but also found the courage to open my heart again.
The man I'm with now treats me with the respect and love I always deserved but never thought possible.
Patty's past relationship healing and inner child healing techniques changed everything for me.
She doesn't just coach you—she transforms your entire approach to love.
May God continue to bless you with knowledge Patty, so you may help many other women out there!
Sarah M. 43
I was skeptical at first, believing that my family's history of failed relationships was simply my destiny.
Patty helped me see how I was unconsciously recreating these patterns in my own life.
Her compassionate yet direct approach challenged me to face my deepest fears about love.
Three months after completing her program, I reconnected with an old friend who has become the supportive partner I never thought existed for me.
Patty doesn't just help you find love—she teaches you how to be ready for it when it arrives.
Jennifer L. 41
After my divorce, I had completely given up on finding love again.
The thought of dating terrified me.
Patty's unique approach to healing generational patterns changed my perspective entirely.
She guided me through releasing old wounds and embracing my worth.
What surprised me most was how my relationship with myself transformed first, and then, almost miraculously, I began attracting completely different men into my life.
Today, I'm engaged to a man who embodies everything on the 'impossible list' I created with Patty. Her work is truly life-changing.
Michelle K. 48