Tired of repeating the same painful patterns after divorce?
Join a faith-based membership for Christian women over 40 to heal childhood wounds, break cycles, and rebuild your identity in Christ.
You prayed. You journaled. You went to therapy.
So why do you keep ending up in the same pain?
There's a reason you keep ending up in the same pain and it has nothing to do with being broken.
It has everything to do with wounds that were never fully healed.
Healing After Divorce, A Faith-Based Membership for Christian Women Over 40Who Are Ready to Break the Cycle for Good.
For I know the plans and thoughts that I have for you,’ says the Lord,
‘plans for peace and well-being and not for disaster, to give you a future and a hope.
Jeremiah 29:11
Does This Sound Like You?
You feel guilty when you say NO
You always put your needs last
You give your all and get breadcrumbs in return
You don't know how to trust your judgment after it's "failed" you before
You're exhausted from dating apps and game-playing
You wonder if God is punishing you for what you did in the past
You keep attracting the same type of man—different face, same problems
You're ready to stop the cycle but don't know
If you nodded your head to any of these, you are not broken.
You are a woman carrying wounds that were never meant to be carried alone.
You're in the right place.
Healing After Divorce Membership
Will Help You...
Go from:
You built a beautiful life on your own.
Real estate. A career. Children who call you their hero.
From the outside, you look like you have it all together and in many ways, you do.
But tonight you are sitting in your car in the driveway, crying. Because you feel lonely.
You want a God-led relationship, but you are afraid to get hurt again.
You are afraid of letting someone in and losing yourself in the process.
You went to therapy. You prayed. You read the books and did the journaling. You thought you had healed.
So why do you keep ending up insecure, feeling like all the good men are taken and at the end of the day, feeling the exact same pain?
Deep down you are afraid the problem is you. That broken love is in your family line something you inherited and cannot escape.
You believe God has planned the perfect life for you. You feel it. But you don't trust yourself.
What if you choose wrong again and break your own heart one more time?
To:
You finally understand that healing is not a season it's a lifestyle.
You stopped waiting to feel ready. You learned to trust the woman God made you to be.
You still remember what it felt like to cry in that driveway. But you no longer live there.
You have clarity. You can feel the difference in your body before your mind catches up and you trust that feeling now.
You don't shrink to make yourself easier to love. You don't over-explain your standards or apologize for having them.
When you set a boundary, you hold it not with anger, but with the quiet confidence that only comes from a woman who knows who she is in Christ.
The pattern is broken. Because you finally became a woman who will not accept what does not honor her.
You are emotionally safe. You are spiritually grounded.
And you move forward not out of longing, but out of trust. Trust in yourself. And trust in a God who has never once dropped the thread of your story.
Imagine Feeling Like This:
The First 30 Days — The WOW Moments Begin
"Wait — this is why I keep ending up here."
You are sitting with your journal and you write the sentence you had never
let yourself write before — the real reason the marriage hurt as much as it did.
And instead of shame rushing in, something else arrives.
Quiet. Like exhaling after holding your breath for years.
You are not the same woman you were before. You are not trying to go back. You are not trying to be chosen.
You are learning — slowly, tenderly — how to come home to yourself.
"He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds." — Psalm 147:3
In 6 Months
You are doing the inner child work and you write a letter to yourself at age eight.
One sentence stops you completely something you needed to hear when you were little and never did.
You read it out loud, alone in your room. And something that has been braced inside of you for decades finally lets go.
You didn't know you were still carrying that little girl. Now you know. And now you can finally set her down.
In 90 Days
A man cancels on you again. And you notice you are not spiraling — not replaying the conversation, not wondering what you said wrong.
You simply think, "That is information." And you move on with your evening.
You didn't realize you were doing something new until you were already on the other side of it.
In 1 Year
You wake up on a Saturday with no plans, no date, no one waiting.
You make your coffee. You open your Bible. You sit in the quiet of your own home and think
genuinely, without performing it for anyone:
"I love my life."
Not because you have everything. Because you finally have yourself.
You used to dread Saturdays alone. This one feels like a gift.
This isn't just another membership.
This is your spiritual and emotional reset.
Why This Membership Is Different?
This Isn't Another Feel-Good Program.
This is Faith-Based Healing That Actually Works.
It's Faith based AND Practical
Most programs give you one or the other. This membership gives you both.
We don't just talk about boundaries — we break soul ties, pray together, and trust God's plan while doing the deep inner work that therapy alone never reached.
Because real healing after divorce requires more than strategy. It requires surrender.
It's Actionable, Not Just Inspirational
Every lesson includes specific exercises, workbooks, and tools you can use immediately.
Not just content that makes you feel good for an hour and changes nothing by morning.
You will leave each week with something to do — not just something to think about.
It's Community-Driven You're not alone in this.
You are not doing this alone.
Our private Facebook group gives you real-time support, accountability, and prayer from women who are in it with you — women who have lived the same sleepless nights, the same doubts, the same quiet hope that something better is possible.
Because healing is faster when you are witnessed
It's Designed Specifically for Divorced Christian Women Over 40
Not for women in their twenties figuring out dating for the first time.
For women who have lived, loved, lost, and are ready — finally — to choose differently.
Women who know God is not finished with them. Women who are done waiting to feel worthy before they begin.
Your past doesn't disqualify you from God's best.
This membership reminds you who you are in Christ, and prepares you for the life He has already written for you.
How Does This Membership Work?
You will receive:
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Monthly live Q+A calls to work through emotional blocks and specific life scenarios
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🙏 Prayer Wednesdays — As a community, we pray for your specific needs
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🙌 Gratitude Fridays — Share what you’re grateful for each week
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Downloadable workbooks and exercises
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Curated book recommendations for faith-based healing after divorce
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Ongoing community support in our private Facebook group
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The tools to finally break your pattern and choose differently
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Additional discounts to workshops, retreats, and events by Patty Martin-Guerra
Your divorce, your mistakes, your "failed" relationships—
none of it disqualifies you from the love God has for you.
"Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, the new creation has come: The old has gone, the new is here!"
2 Corinthians 5:17
Hi, I'm Patty Martin-Guerra
Certified Life Coach | Faith-Based Divorce Recovery Specialist | Podcast Host
A few years ago, I was sitting in the same silence you might be sitting in right now.
I had done the work therapy, prayer, journaling, church. And yet I kept ending up in the same place. Same pain. Different man. Same pattern.
What I didn't know then was this: you cannot heal what you have not named.
I was carrying wounds from my childhood, from my family of origin, from relationships that left marks I never fully dealt with. And I was trying to build something new on top of a foundation that was still cracked.
When I finally did the deep inner healing work — the kind that goes back to the little girl, not just the divorced woman — everything changed.
Not overnight. But completely.
That's why I created the Healing After Divorce Membership for Christian Women Over 40.
I wanted to build the program I wish had existed when I was in the middle of my own pain one that is faith-based and practical, spiritually grounded and emotionally honest, designed for women like us who are strong enough to have survived everything we've survived, and brave enough to finally go deeper.
I am a certified life coach specializing in faith-based healing after divorce, inner child work, and breaking generational patterns in love and relationships. I host two podcasts Rising After Divorce for Christian Women Over 40 (English) and Mujer, Renuévate a los 40+ (Spanish) where I walk women through exactly what we do together inside this membership.
I have been where you are. I have done this work. I found what I was searching for.
And I am here — with God's guidance — to help you do the same.
How Much Longer Will You Wait?
Another year just passed.
Did the pattern change?
Did the loneliness get quieter? Did the fear of getting hurt again get smaller?
Did you finally stop wondering if God's best is really meant for you?
If the answer is no, it's not because you aren't trying hard enough.
It's because trying harder is not the same as going deeper.
You have already survived the divorce. The heartbreak. The starting over.
You have already proven you are strong enough to rebuild.
Now it's time to heal the part of you that keeps sabotaging what you're building.
How many more years will you give to the wrong person?
How many more heartbreaks before you decide to do the inner work?
How much longer will you let fear, shame, or your past keep you from the life God already wrote for you?
This year can be different. But only if you choose differently starting today.
Your divorce does not disqualify you. Your mistakes do not disqualify you. Your age does not disqualify you.
The only thing standing between you and your healing is the decision to begin.
Your future self the one who wakes up on a Saturday morning, opens her Bible, makes her coffee, and genuinely thinks "I love my life" she is not waiting for you to feel ready.
She is waiting for you to say YES.
"Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, the new creation has come:
The old has gone, the new is here!" — 2 Corinthians 5:17
Frequently Asked Questions
Q: I've already done some healing work. Is this membership still for me?
A: Yes — and here's why. Healing after divorce is not a one-time event. It's a lifelong journey. You may have healed one layer, but our wounds have many. Every season of life, every new relationship, every trigger reveals a new layer that needs love and attention. Inside this membership, we go deeper than most programs ever go into childhood wounds, generational patterns, and the inner child work that creates lasting change. If you are still repeating patterns, there is still work to do. And you don't have to do it alone.
Q: How much time do I need each week?
A: Plan for at least 30 minutes a week to go through the lesson, complete the workbook exercises, and engage with the community. Everything is self-paced, so you can move at the speed that works for your life — not anyone else's.
Q: What if I miss a week and need to catch up?
A: Life happens and this membership is built for real women with real lives. All lessons, workbooks, and exercises are available 24/7 inside the platform. The private Facebook community stays open and active so you always have support, whether you are on track or catching up.
Q: Is this membership only for divorced women?
A: The name says "divorced" but the healing inside is for any woman who keeps repeating painful relationship patterns. Whether you are divorced, widowed, never married, or coming out of a long-term relationship, if you recognize yourself in this page, this membership was made for you.
Q: I'm not currently dating. Is this the right time to join?
A: This is actually the best time to join. Doing your inner healing work before you start dating again means you enter your next relationship as a healed, whole, grounded woman not a woman still running on old wounds. The work you do now protects your future.
Q: Is this membership faith-based? What if I'm not Christian?
A: Yes — this is a faith-based divorce recovery membership. Every lesson is rooted in Christian values, biblical truth, and prayer. If that resonates with you, you will feel right at home. If faith is not part of your journey, this particular membership may not be the right fit and that's okay.
Q: Will I have access to the Facebook community the whole time?
A: Yes. Once you join, you have ongoing access to our private Facebook group for continued support, prayer, and accountability for as long as you are a member.
Q: What is your refund policy?
A: Due to the digital nature of this membership, all sales are final. If you have questions before joining, please email me at info@pattymartinlifecoach.com I am happy to help you decide if this is the right fit for you.
Q: How is this different from therapy?
A: Therapy is valuable and this membership is not a replacement for it. What we do here goes alongside therapy, or beyond what therapy alone can reach. We combine faith, inner child healing, practical tools, and real community in a way that is specifically designed for divorced Christian women over 40. Many of our members are in therapy and in this membership and they say the two work beautifully together.
Still have questions? Email me at info@pattymartinlifecoach.com — I read every message personally.
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